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Display of affection...
Kewl Saloni , delhi: May 26 2008
Made Popular May 27 2008
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Display of affection... Khullam Khulla Pyar Karenge

Let it be Lodhi Garden or garden Of Five Senses, either be PVR or Paras Cinema, one thing you will find common in all is… NO! It’s neither roses nor latest bollywood flicks but they are Delhi’s most favorite things - love birds. (Not actual birds but humans with love wings).

At each and every corner of such places you will find these pair of lovers mingling up with each other, as if given opportunity they will enter each other’s aura. Not only this, but the situation gets worsen when these people thinking of themselves as Adams and eves(their dresses no less revealing than the real Adam-eve), don’t mind locking lips in public and without hesitation cross the line of society’s shame.

This scene is obviously enjoyed by the youth watching, but is not less than a horror movie for small kids coming there and families passing by. The only punishment they have to face is - raised eyebrows of people passing by.

In earlier epoch, a couple didn’t even dare to hold hands at such places. But, in those times even movies showed nothing more than just flowers kissing each other. Step by step, with the society dipping into the western influence, the great Indian culture has lost its roots and the society has become daring enough to except these relations.

Whole lot of moral policing creates fuss for such displays, but, if one take both the flip sides of a coin, if displays aren’t that ‘thwarting’, i.e., if it just involves holding hands, can be easily digested with just a relieved sigh that love still exists.

But, if all the lines are crossed and mingling up of two bodies is displayed in public, it would definitely affect the psychology of kids, as well as will be rejected by the elderly.

But all this , serves a profit for one section of society - those called as police and authorities. Taking a good amount by harassing makes a good part of a policeman. In a recent case, a loud couple when targeted at Japanese Park at Rohini, the boy was released after payment opf 20, 000, but the girl was supposed to sleep with the officer for three hours. Also, the guards of parks and such places ask for a good amount to even provide rooms with the protection from police.

They say you can do anything in love, but somebody forget to tell these youngsters, that they got to do it inside closed rooms! Yes, this can be true love, but love is something which doesn’t needs any definition or explanation or expression. It’s understood in itself.

Watching every movie star kissing his/her girlfriend in front of a huge public obviously, creates a desire in each one of us to let the world know how much we love our soul mate. But people, you got to admit that those actors are paid for this, and no one is gong to give you even a penny!

Sameer, who works at a call center says- “I hardly manage to meet my girlfriend, and when we do so, its important to fulfill each-other’s needs and desires? Moreover, parks are peaceful places, and so one has to adjust.”

But my dear Mr. Sameer, if parks were meant for lovers, they would have kept names like ‘Green-Honeymoon’, or The Lover’s Resort and they would have charged rents as per hours. We need to understand the importance of respecting the society and so, no matter how true your love is- it becomes more Godly and spiritual when such pieces of loud intimate behaviors are done after getting tied in a knot!

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Alpheus alpheus-vertigo.blog..
Rayagada, Orissa, India
Western influence, a by-product of sensual movies or whatever you call it, I am sure all of us are sensible enough to understand that PDA (public display of affection) is absolutely obnoxious. Holding hands is fine. A peck on the cheek is still ok. However, anything beyond this in a park is inviting trouble.
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Anwesha
Calcutta, India
this is not only true in Delhi but in almost every big city in India. soemtimes one wonders where one is...USA or India. the people who indulge in these acts do not realize that they are not expressing their freedom or even smartness, they are shedding their dignity. Display of affection is supposed to be private, not a sport for people to ogle at and comment on. and the youngsters dont even care. they can have the world stare at them and not be bothered about stopping. it seems, for whatever reason, youngsters are finding it too difficult to keep their hands off each other.
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Though the moral police make life hell for the young people at the slightest pretext, I have to admit that public display of affection get’s a little too vulgar more often than otherwise. But even if it does, I still don’t understand why some moronic people try to enforce non existent laws and try to act god rather than walking away or ignoring such acts.
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Bijoy
tinsukia, India
The million-dollar question is why do u need to DISPLAY your intimate moment with your soul mate in public? Its a private affair and should be kept within the confines of the four walls. If at all you are adventurous and want to have a walk with your gal/boy, just take a ’normal’ stroll, dats it ! Its so agonizing to go in a park ( these days secluded pavements are more preferred than this) with any distant relative or the kids that i have made it a point to see the parks only in google videos or you tube ! Can you believe that ?
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Yeah I personally think people who resort to such means are looking for new ways of sprucing their relationship! A couple groping each other in public view can be embarrassing for others and even though Indian public has come off age a little they still do not mind exhibiting a scorn or a disapproving glance in the right direction!!
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Leena
Kolkata, India
Public display of affection is definitely embarrassing for both the involved and the observer and it is preferable that such people find privacy. It sets a bad example in society and should not be done.

But thinking from the point of view of those people who do it, maybe they can’t help it. In many Indian households, especially in the joint family systems, married couples do not have the privacy to express themselves at home. Even the unmarried owing to parental opposition or many such factors have nowhere to go. It is a very sad state of affairs.

The example in the article of a girl having to spend time with a policeman shows a very ugly picture of law enforcement making them greater culprits then the actual offenders.
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